This will hurt…a lot!We must step into our own internal fire of Armageddon where all things are revealed. About them, about us. And then we must express it, re-interpret it, understand it, accept it, and then own it; whether it was caused by others or ourselves and it is usually others till we are adults and then ourselves. We must do this to heal our pain. And it hurts.
So, if it hurts so much why do I say we ‘must’ do it? After all it is human nature to avoid pain.
Well, firstly we must do it because by avoiding the reality of emotional pain we prolong the agony of the experience and that prolonged agony negatively impacts upon every relationship, every conversation, every moment of every day of every week of every month of every year until we stop the avoidance.
And secondly when we stop avoiding the pain and instead, act to heal, our journeys eventuate in :
Elevating our understanding,
Improving our personality
Improving our relationships
Improving our appreciation and gratitude,
Increasing the love in our life
Improving our sex life
Increasing our curiosity and thus understanding
Increasing our empathy and compassion
Making us MUCH better parents
and allowing us to regularly
Laugh Out loud,
and be glad that we are alive!